There's always more and more to think about – but what's really important? We'll give you simple tips that can make your everyday life as expectant or new parents easier. We'll tell you about five things you can easily do without in the early days with a baby, some of which will even help protect the environment and your wallet.
- New clothes
Babies grow quickly, and it's such a shame when that expensive designer bodysuit has only been worn a few times and is already worn out. If siblings are on the way, it can easily be reused. But especially if you're on a tight budget, secondhand shops, online marketplaces, and flea markets in your neighborhood, community, or daycare. If you're buying "in advance," keep the seasons in mind so your child doesn't suddenly need a snowsuit in July. Or why not check out the "Klamöttchen" children's secondhand shop at the SOS Children's Village Center ? There you can donate clothes and/or buy them at affordable prices.
- Duvet & Pillow
During the first two years of life, children sleep safely and warmly in a sleeping bag on their backs. A blanket is easily kicked off, and duvets and pillows also increase the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). Suitable sleeping bags are available for summer and winter months, as well as year-round use. Good quality used sleeping bags are also available – ask your friends, neighbors, and acquaintances!
- Baby walker
First on their back, then on their tummy, then sitting up and crawling. Every child develops differently, and this includes their first steps. As parents, you can easily do without baby walkers! The German Federal Association "More Safety for Children" points to numerous accident risks, such as falls and burns . Motor development also slows down in children who frequently use walkers because their muscles are far too weak to support their weight. This improper weight distribution can have health consequences for their feet, hips, and spine.
- Fragrances
Babies smell like… babies! And that's exactly how it should be. Your child doesn't need anything like fabric softener, soap, shampoo, powder, or perfume at first. Even though advertising promises and offers a lot, a washcloth and water are perfectly sufficient. Olive oil can help with dry baby skin. If you're unsure about anything, it's best to ask your midwife or pediatrician. Or you can get information from one of the early intervention centers.
- Toys & Media
Even at just a few months old, babies begin exploring the world. A ball to grasp, a soft rag doll, or a cuddly blanket is sufficient in the early stages. Simple motor skills toys that stimulate the senses, such as grasping toys and rattles, then complement the growing interest of babies. Be careful with small parts that babies can easily swallow! Therefore, you should avoid cuddly toys with attached or sewn-on eyes or ears. Ideally, all toys should be free of harmful substances and meet safety requirements, meaning they should have a test mark or seal. Anything that makes loud noises, flashes, or sounds is unnecessary. It overwhelms a baby's sensory perception. This also includes smartphones, tablets, and smart TVs, even though many apps are already designed for very young children. You can read more about "media perception" here.
What you shouldn't do without
If you need advice or support during this exciting time, if you're worried about your child, or simply want some tips and suggestions for your (new) family life: the early intervention centers in Bremen can help! Just make an appointment for a consultation. You can often attend a midwife consultation or a nutrition consultation there and ask your questions. Or you can participate in one of the open programs, such as a parent-child group, a baby group, or a breastfeeding café. They also regularly offer courses like infant care, PEKIP (Prague Parent-Child Program), or baby massage, where you can connect with other parents. Our "Welcome to the Family" page also provides you with lots of information and an overview of counseling and support services for the first few months with your baby.
