The first day of school at most Bremen primary schools is August 15th this year. It's a big day for first-graders and their parents, as it marks the beginning of a new chapter in their lives. Between school cones, photos, and general excitement, parents can quickly feel pressured to make everything perfect.
The good news: You don't have to do that at all. Much more important than the perfect celebration or the biggest gift is that your child feels safe and well-supported during this exciting time. We have a few tips for you on how to get primary school off to a good start:
The first day of school celebration doesn't have to be an event
Of course, starting school is a special day. But it doesn't have to be a big family gathering or an elaborately planned celebration. Many children have so many new impressions after their first lesson that they quickly become exhausted. A meal together with their closest relatives, time to chat, and a relaxed afternoon are often perfectly sufficient. Less structured activities often mean more time for the real star: your child.
Phone or kids' watch? Trust is the better companion
Many parents wonder whether their child should receive a smartphone or smartwatch with tracking capabilities when starting school. However, this isn't necessary for most primary school children. Children learn independence by gaining experience – and by adults trusting them to manage small tasks and manage things on their own. Instead of being constantly monitored, trust strengthens self-confidence. Make firm agreements and keep communicating with your child. This way, they will gradually grow into their new role.
The best gifts often don't cost much
A well-filled school cone is lovely – but it doesn't have to be overflowing or particularly expensive. Grandparents, godparents, or friends don't need to give costly gifts either. A book for beginning readers, a nice pencil case, a voucher for a trip together or to their favorite ice cream parlor – because time spent together often leaves a much longer-lasting impression than expensive toys. In the end, it's not the price that counts, but the thoughtfulness.
Who will look after my child during the school holidays?
As soon as school starts, you as a parent might already be wondering about holiday childcare. The Bremen Holiday Compass. There, parents can find an overview of childcare options during Bremen's school holidays – from creative workshops and sports and nature activities to full-day holiday programs. This makes it easier for you to plan your new family routine and the holiday period effectively.
Something new is beginning for parents too
It's not just children who are excited before the first day of school. Parents are also taking a big step: they're relinquishing a bit of control over their daily routine and trusting that their child will find their way. That's perfectly normal. Try, however, to project calmness. Children look to the feelings of their caregivers for guidance. If you remain calm, answer questions, and encourage your child, you'll convey a sense of security – even if you're a little nervous yourself.
It's easier to learn when you're well-rested
Starting school often brings changes to your child's daily routine. To ensure your child is refreshed and ready for class, it's helpful to establish regular bedtimes a few days before the first day. A quiet evening without screen time, consistent rituals like reading aloud or cuddling, and sufficient sleep will all contribute to a smooth transition into the new routine. You can find practical tips for healthy sleep for primary school children at ElternLeben: Sleep Tips for Primary School Children.
Remember: Starting school isn't a competition, but the beginning of an exciting journey. Give your child time, trust them – and yourself too. Then an exciting day will turn into a great start to their school years. You can find lots of leisure activities and group programs for school children, as well as advice and support for children and you as a parent, in our section "Children aged 6 to 12"– take a look!
